When we follow the words of Jesus, many times; ( until you learn to control your emotions). Your flesh will be uncomfortable because he will call you cross-grain, that means it’s not the natural flow of things lol! He will call you cross- grain of what you use to do.
He tells you to love and not hate. Forgive and do good. He will tell you to put the other person first. For when your born again, your living in a different kingdom. The Kingdom Of Almighty God. His Kingdom rules over all. Let him teach you.
Romans 14:17
17 For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.