One has said in a certain place,” I’d love to hear your point of view, but when you abashedly lash out, it’s hard to do.” Change your approach, go at the discussion in a different way. Now fine tune your emotions, and you may have something be able to get through. Your position can be made known, understood, and be received. Conflict resolution has been an age old problem. However with God, and the right spiritual attitude, not only can you be heard, but He can raise you up to make changes that benefit everyone. Being despised and contemptible in one’s eye’s can be erased & doesn’t need to be on the table.
Ephesians 4:26-30
29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. 30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.